Beyond Burnout: Helping Parents Get Their Energy Back
- Dr. Karolyn Surmont

- Jul 29
- 4 min read

You’re Not Broken—Your Nervous System Just Needs Help
If you’ve tried every “energy fix” out there—coffee, supplements, early morning workouts—and you still feel drained, foggy, and running on empty, here’s the truth: you’re not broken.
You’re simply stuck in survival mode because your nervous system is stuck there too.
When your “gas pedal” (stress mode) is always on and your “brake pedal” (rest and recovery mode) isn’t working, burnout isn’t just likely—it’s inevitable. No amount of caffeine, B12, or quick-fix hacks can override a nervous system that’s been overloaded for too long.
This message is for parents who have tried everything—diet changes, better sleep routines, meditation—and still feel exhausted. If that’s you, it’s time to stop blaming yourself and start addressing the real root cause: your nervous system.
At His Work My Hands Chiropractic, we help parents go deeper than diet plans or temporary solutions. We help you reboot, recharge, and regulate your nervous system so you can finally get your energy—and your life—back.
You’re Not Alone (and You’re Definitely Not Lazy)
Burnout is far more common than most parents realize:
Up to 14% of parents experience parental burnout, with moms being affected the most.
More than 20% of adults report chronic fatigue, with parents reporting even higher rates.
Burnout doesn’t just make you tired—it impacts your whole body:
Chronic stress disrupts cortisol patterns (your body’s energy-regulating hormone)
Inflammation increases, draining your energy further
Sleep quality suffers, no matter how early you go to bed
In our office, we see parents every day who thought being “exhausted all the time” was just part of parenting. But when we run neurological INSiGHT scans, we often find something deeper: a dysregulated nervous system stuck in fight-or-flight mode.
The Real Root Cause of Parental Exhaustion
Here’s what most healthcare providers miss: your energy levels depend on your nervous system.
Your autonomic nervous system (ANS) has two key branches:
Sympathetic (fight or flight): your “gas pedal” that keeps you alert and ready for stress.
Parasympathetic (rest and digest): your “brake pedal” that helps you recover and restore energy.
When stress piles up and subluxations (misalignments that interfere with brain-body communication) develop, this system gets stuck in overdrive. This condition—called dysautonomia—keeps your body from fully resting, recharging, and healing.
One of the most important players here is the vagus nerve, which connects your brain to key organs like your gut and regulates your recovery, digestion, and energy production. If it’s not functioning properly, you can eat all the right foods, take every supplement, and still feel completely drained.
The “3 T’s” That Drain Parents’ Energy
Parents face nonstop stress from multiple directions. In chiropractic, we call them the 3 T’s:
Physical Stressors
Carrying kids on your hip
Poor posture from sleepless nights and long days
Old injuries or birth trauma
Chemical Stressors
Processed foods and environmental toxins
Hormonal changes and inflammation
Constant caffeine and sugar dependence
Emotional Stressors
Relationship changes after having kids (studies show 2 out of 3 parents experience this within 3 years of becoming parents)
Work-life imbalance
Daily mental and emotional overload
And today, there’s a fourth stressor we can’t ignore: Technology overload, which hijacks focus, keeps the brain overstimulated, and adds to nervous system stress.
The Brain-Gut Connection and Energy
Did you know your gut health and energy are directly linked? Your vagus nerve controls digestion, nutrient absorption, and how efficiently your body turns food into fuel.
If your nervous system is dysregulated:
You may experience bloating, constipation, or food sensitivities
Even a perfect diet won’t fix your fatigue
Your body struggles to use nutrients for actual energy
This is why so many parents feel “stuck” despite doing all the right things. Until the nervous system is addressed, those healthy habits can’t deliver their full benefits.
Why Typical Energy Solutions Don’t Work for Parents
Most conventional approaches only mask the problem:
Caffeine and energy drinks push your nervous system harder, worsening burnout.
Sleep supplements or medications don’t fix why your sleep isn’t restorative.
“It’s just parenthood” mindset dismisses real neurological dysfunction.
The truth is, if you’re running on fumes, you don’t need more quick fixes. You need to retrain your nervous system to get out of survival mode.
The Missing Link: Neurologically-Focused Chiropractic Care
At His Work My Hands Chiropractic, we focus on correcting the root cause of exhaustion by restoring proper nervous system function.
When your nervous system is balanced, everything changes:
Energy returns naturally
Sleep becomes restorative
Digestion improves
Hormones stabilize
Brain fog clears
This is not about adding another supplement or “pushing through” parenting exhaustion. It’s about helping your nervous system function the way it was designed—so you can go from surviving to thriving.
From Burnout to Breakthrough
If you’re a parent stuck in survival mode, you don’t have to live this way.
At His Work My Hands Chiropractic, we’ve helped countless parents finally get their energy back by addressing what everyone else overlooks: the nervous system.
📞 Call today to schedule your consultation and take the first step toward restoring your energy.
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Parents—you deserve more than burnout. You deserve clarity, balance, and energy that lasts.



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