Surviving Holiday Celebrations When Your Child Has Sensory Overload
- Dr. Karolyn Surmont
- 2 days ago
- 4 min read

A Parent’s Guide from His Work My Hands Chiropractic, Serving Families in Lake Worth and Greenacres
Is your child already dreading the Labor Day, summer block parties, or family holiday gatherings? Are you bracing yourself for meltdowns, tantrums, or tears that always seem to follow fireworks, loud music, or crowded celebrations?
You’re not alone. We meet parents every day who feel like they’ve tried everything—noise-canceling headphones, watching fireworks from the car, or even avoiding celebrations altogether—only to feel like they’re missing out on family fun.
But here’s the truth: while these strategies may help temporarily, they only manage the symptoms. They don’t address the root cause of your child’s sensory overload. And until that root cause is found and resolved, every celebration will continue to feel overwhelming and exhausting—for both your child and your family.
The Hidden Truth About Sensory Challenges
Did you know that about 1 in 6 children struggle with sensory processing challenges? For these kids, bright fireworks, crowded parades, or even birthday parties don’t just feel overwhelming—they can actually be painful and triggering.
But here’s what most doctors don’t tell you: your child’s extreme reaction to these situations isn’t just about loud noises or flashing lights. More often, it’s a sign of a neurological imbalance in the nervous system.
James' Story: From Overwhelmed to Thriving
Take James, for example. For the first few years of his life, James' sensory overload was so severe that his parents avoided taking him out in public. Grocery shopping, restaurants, and school functions all ended in meltdowns. Fireworks were completely out of the question.
One time, James cut himself badly but didn’t react to the pain—he was only bothered by the feeling of blood running down his arm. His nervous system was so overwhelmed and disorganized that it couldn’t process sensations properly.
Traditional approaches—like medications and avoidance strategies—weren’t helping. His parents felt trapped, isolated, and hopeless.
But after starting Neurologically-Focused Chiropractic Care here at His Work My Hands Chiropractic, James' nervous system began to calm and regulate. Today, he’s a thriving honor-roll student who can enjoy celebrations with his family—including fireworks.
James' story shows what’s possible when we stop masking symptoms and start addressing the real underlying cause.
Understanding Your Child’s Nervous System
So what’s really happening?
Sensory overload isn’t just about external triggers like noise, lights, or crowds. It’s a sign that your child’s nervous system is stuck in “fight or flight” mode—what we call sympathetic dominance.
In this state, the brain is constantly on high alert, scanning for threats, and unable to filter out normal sensory input. That means everyday sounds, lights, and experiences feel exaggerated and overwhelming.
Events like the Fourth of July only amplify this. Fireworks combine loud noises, flashing lights, big crowds, strong smells, and disrupted routines—creating the perfect storm for sensory overload.
The Root Cause: Dysautonomia and Subluxation
At the core of sensory challenges is often a condition called dysautonomia—an imbalance between the sympathetic (“fight or flight”) and parasympathetic (“rest and digest”) nervous systems.
This imbalance is frequently linked to subluxation, or interference in the communication between the brain and body. One of the most critical players here is the vagus nerve, the “master nerve” that helps regulate emotions, stress recovery, digestion, sleep, and overall calm.
When subluxation disrupts vagus nerve function, your child’s nervous system gets “stuck” in stress mode—unable to calm down, filter sensations, or regulate emotions.
And here’s the kicker: this imbalance often starts at birth. Interventions like C-sections, forceps, vacuum extraction, or inductions can create subtle but lasting injuries to the upper neck and brainstem—what we call overlooked and dismissed birth trauma. This sets the stage for long-term nervous system dysfunction, sensory overload, and behavioral challenges.
Why Traditional Approaches Fall Short
Most conventional strategies focus only on symptom management:
Noise-canceling headphones
Avoiding fireworks or parties
Medications to blunt the response
Therapy sessions without addressing the neurological foundation
While these can help temporarily, none of them fix the root cause. Medications come with side effects, and avoidance strategies limit your child’s opportunities to thrive and grow. Even therapies like occupational or sensory integration therapy often don’t reach their full potential if the nervous system imbalance isn’t corrected first.
A Different Approach: Restoring Balance to the Nervous System
At His Work My Hands Chiropractic, we take a unique, neurological approach.
We begin with advanced INSiGHT Scans, including the NeuroSpinal EMG Scan, to measure exactly where stress and tension are building in your child’s nervous system. These scans detect the “neurological noise” that disrupts communication between the brain and body—what we often call Noisy Brain Syndrome.
With this detailed insight, we create a personalized care plan to gently and precisely correct subluxations, restore vagus nerve function, and rebalance the nervous system.
As the nervous system shifts out of constant “fight or flight” and regains balance, children often experience:
Fewer meltdowns and sensory triggers
Better sleep and digestion
Improved focus and learning
Greater ability to regulate emotions
Renewed joy in family activities and celebrations
Imagine a Different Summer for Your Family
Imagine this Labor—or your next big family gathering—being different. Picture your child looking forward to the celebration instead of dreading it. Imagine watching fireworks together, not through tears and tantrums, but with smiles and laughter.
That’s what’s possible when we address the root cause of sensory overload. Like James, your child has the potential to move from overwhelmed to thriving. And the difference isn’t just noticeable at fireworks displays—it affects every part of their daily life, learning, and future.
Ready to Help Your Child Thrive?
At His Work My Hands Chiropractic, we’re passionate about helping families in Lake Worth and Greenacres find real solutions to sensory challenges.
If your child struggles with sensory overload, anxiety, meltdowns, or emotional regulation, don’t wait for them to “grow out of it.” Instead, let’s uncover the root cause and start them on the path to healing.
✨ Call our office today to schedule a consultation and INSiGHT scans.
Because your child doesn’t need to just “survive” holiday celebrations—they deserve to enjoy them. And we’d love to help your family make that a reality.
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